The 3R's of Regulation

A Nervous System Guide to Understanding how the Brain and Body Regulate

Feeling like you and your child are stuck in “react–explode–recover” mode? 

You know the scene: The meltdown, the racing heart, the defiant shut‑down, the hours of guilt afterwards. And no matter what you try, it feels like the logic & reason isn’t working because the body has already taken over.

This guide puts an end to that exhausting loop. This is your first step to regulating the system — so you can truly start parenting from peace instead of panic.

Inside you’ll discover:

  • Exactly which 3 regulation zones they (and you) keep shifting between — and how to recognise when you’re in survival mode, drive mode or safe‑zone mode
  • Practical tools backed by neuroscience + emotional‑intelligence magic to bring your child (and you) back into calm, engaged connection
  • Turning meltdown moments into opportunities for connection instead of shame
  • Empowering your child (and yourself) to respond, not just react
  • Building momentum towards a home where confidence, regulation, and joy become the norm.